Digital content creator and actress Brenda Jones has shared her experience dating a sponsor in her early 20s.

Speaking in a video on her YouTube channel, the actress said she never imagined dating a sponsor until in 2020 when she met her sponsor through his boss.

Brenda explained that the sponsor was close with her boss and showed intrest in her after her boss shared a photo alongside her in a WhatsApp group.

"I never thought I could have a sponsor, I used to see my college mates and I was like huh? In 2020 after I left the church I moved to a new place and was at a place of transition. I was a frustrated Christian, questioning God

"I met my sponsor through a person I was working with. We had taken photos with my then boss who later shared the photos on a WhatsApp group. The sponsor saw them and told my boss he wanted me," said Brenda.  

The actress went ahead to state that her boss was colluding with the sponsor to make sure that they end up together.

"One time my boss requested me to accompany him to an event only for us to go and meet my sponsor there. My boss would leave me a lot with the 'sponsor' and I would look at him and be like he is not my type," said Brenda. 

A week after their first encounter, Brenda disclosed that she was surprised with a fully paid trip to Elementaita, only to learn that the sponsor had paid for it.

"He just said hi. The next week I got a surprise to go to Elementaita and I learned later that the sponsor had paid for it. I even had like 50K to spend. I tagged my friend along and we spent three days. Everything had been paid for," she said.  

Despite his sex drive being bad, Brenda said she dated him because he took good care of her, noting that she would receive random money from him.

"There was no intimacy, it was so bad I am even embarrassed. The guy moved me to a bigger house. I house hunted and found an office for my shooting equipment. That was within a period of two months. I would receive flowers and he would even give me this driver to drive me around.

"I would get random MPesa messages, finally, we met and he told me he wanted to date me. I was like, 'who would not like to seat at home and get everything paid for?' I told him yes," Brenda further said. 

After months of dating, the address said her sponsor got overprotective and he installed a tracker on her phone to monitor her movements.

"He had a tracker on my phone. Anytime I was at a place I wasn't supposed to be he would call me. He started becoming overprotective and possessive. He even brought a ring into the picture. We were to live as husband and wife," she said. 

Brenda also said he advised her to ditch art and focus of wife duties, arguing that she was exposing herself to other men by being in the limelight.

"He told me to stop doing art and be a stay at home wife, that anytime he wanted dinner I must be home to serve him. He said I was exposing myself to other men by being an artist," she added.